Rixey Manor
Rixey Manor

The checklist

Comparing wedding venues?
Use this on every tour.

The price at the top of the page is rarely the price you pay. Tick what each venue actually includes. Write in what costs extra. The number at the bottom is the real one.

Rixey Manor  ·  rixeymanor.com

Wedding venue comparison checklist

Tick what's included. Write in the dollar add-on for what's extra. Add it up at the bottom.

 
The Wedding Day
The Estate Weekend
Venue: ________________
Venue: ________________
Headline price
$15,500 peak
$12,000 off-season
$21,000 peak
$16,000 off-season
$ _____________
$ _____________
What's in the base price
Venue rental, full day
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Friday access for rehearsal dinner
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Two nights lodging for 14 (manor + cottage)
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Chiavari chairs & tables
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Two separate getting-ready spaces
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Exclusive use of the property
Totally private all day
Whole weekend, no other weddings
_____________
_____________
Licensed bartending — Saturday
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Licensed bartending — Friday
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
BYOB, no corkage fees
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Basic linens
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Silk floral + candle centerpieces
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Borrow shed (décor library)
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
No required vendor list
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
No vendor markup or facility fee
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Day-of venue team
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Day-of coordinator
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Pets welcome at ceremony
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Outdoor finish time
10pm
10pm
_____________
_____________
Guest minimum
None
None
_____________
_____________
Available upgrades
Extra hour beyond 10pm (party moves inside, or the fire pit)
+$750/hr
+$750/hr
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Third night of lodging
+$1,750
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Overnight — one night before or after
+$1,750
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Overnight — two nights around the wedding
+$3,250
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Extra event (cultural ceremony, exit brunch, etc.)
+$1,500/50
+$1,500/50
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Larger guest count (101–150 Saturday)
+$1,500
+$1,500
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Larger guest count (151–200 Saturday)
+$3,000
+$3,000
☐   + $ _________
☐   + $ _________
Available discounts (stackable up to 20% at Rixey)
Off-site ceremony (church, separate venue)
−5%
−5%
☐   − _____ %
☐   − _____ %
Recommended vendors only
−5%
−5%
☐   − _____ %
☐   − _____ %
Under 50 Saturday guests
−10%
−10%
☐   − _____ %
☐   − _____ %
Military / veteran / first responder
−10%
−10%
☐   − _____ %
☐   − _____ %
Bring-your-own + other policies
Outside caterer of your choice allowed
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Food trucks allowed
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Multiple ceremony locations on property
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Indoor backup if it rains
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Sparklers allowed (wedding-safe)
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Open-flame candles allowed
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Real-flower petals allowed
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Drone photography allowed
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Day-after pickup window for vendor rentals
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
No day-of liability insurance required by venue
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Same-sex / LGBTQ+ weddings welcome
☐ yes   ☐ no
☐ yes   ☐ no
Real total — headline + every add-on
$15,500 / $12,000
$21,000 / $16,000
$ ______________
$ ______________

Off-season at Rixey: January, February, July, August. Most venues don't reduce rates in off-season the way we do — worth asking.  ·  Comparable Northern Virginia market figures for reference: bartending ~$1,800 · corkage ~$1,400 · linens ~$750 · centerpieces ~$1,200 · coordinator ~$2,500 · second prep suite ~$750.

A few things the table can't carry

The unwritten lines.

We welcome dogs at the ceremony (we've had a lot of good ones). We don't have a guest minimum — we'll host an elopement of twelve or a wedding of two hundred. The 30 acres are yours for the weekend: no shared events, no other couples on the property.

And when you tour somewhere that holds multiple weddings a day, or takes a percentage of your caterer's invoice, or quietly requires their own bar at a markup — that's where the blanks on the right side of this page start to fill in.

The point of this checklist isn't to make a case for Rixey. It's to give you a way to compare honestly. If another venue ticks every box on the left and lands at a lower number than ours, book them. We'd rather you knew now.

Your wedding at Rixey Manor

Come and see it
for yourself.

We want to learn about your wedding as much as tell you about the venue. That takes about an hour.