Rixey Manor
Rixey Manor

Pricing

No hidden fees.
No surprises.

Most venue websites end with "contact us for pricing." This one doesn't. Build your estimate below, and if the numbers work, come and see the place.

Aerial view of the Rixey Manor estate with manicured grounds and curved driveway in the Virginia countryside

What every wedding includes

Before the number, here's what's in it. We put this first because a price without context is just a number. You should know what you're getting before you decide if it makes sense.

The whole place. Yours.

Every booking is full exclusive use of the property. The ballroom, the rooftop, the ceremony site, the terrace, the manor library, the kitchen, all 30 acres. No other weddings. No other couples. No strangers in the corridor wondering who you are.

Most venues rent you a room for the afternoon. Rixey gives you a home for the day. Your wedding, built the way you actually want it.

A coordinator. Included.

Not someone who shows up at 2pm with a clipboard. A coordinator who has run hundreds of weddings on this specific property, knows which vendors work well here, and has seen what can go sideways and how to stop it before you notice. She is part of your day from the start. This is not an add-on.

Bring your own bar. Keep your money.

Rixey is BYOB. You choose the beer, the wine, the spirits. You buy them at retail, no markup, no corkage fee, no required wine list. Our licensed in-house bartenders handle service professionally. Couples consistently say this saved them thousands compared to per-drink venue pricing. That is genuinely the point.

Your people, your vendors.

Hire your cousin's band. Use the caterer your family loves. Book the photographer whose work you've followed for two years. The only exception is bartending, which our licensed in-house team handles. Everything else is yours to choose. We have a vetted recommendation list if you want a starting point. It's a list, not a mandate.

The borrow shed.

Over a decade of weddings at Rixey has left behind a real collection: arbors, signs, table numbers, easels, lanterns, card boxes, candleholders, frames. All of it is available to use at no charge. Most couples who find this out end up cutting a meaningful chunk from their rentals budget.

What you see is what you pay.

No cake-cutting fee. No corkage fee. No service charge added at the end. No venue insurance requirement buried in page 6 of the contract. We quote a number and that is what you pay. The calculator below gives you a real estimate, not a range designed to get you on the phone.

Build your estimate

Select your options below. The total updates as you go. Final pricing is confirmed at your tour.

01Wedding Season

02Guest Count

Guests over approximately 100 will need a tent on the patio, rented separately.

03Overnight Stays

The manor sleeps up to 14 guests comfortably across the manor house and Blacksmith Cottage.

04Included with every booking

  • Classic white Chiavari chairs
  • Tables: rounds, rectangulars, cocktail tables
  • On-site coordinator (planning meetings + full wedding day)
  • Drop-off appointment the day before
  • Wedding rehearsal
  • Décor inventory: table numbers, arbors, card boxes, lanterns, signs, and more (free to use)
  • Ballroom, patio, bar, and rooftop for up to 12 hours
  • Manor library, dining room, and sitting room
  • Kitchen and bedrooms for VIPs to get ready
  • Newlywed Suite for the couple to get ready
  • BYO alcohol, no corkage fees
  • Licensed in-house bartending service (required when serving alcohol)
  • Choose your own vendors for everything else, no required vendor list
  • Parking on-site
  • Wi-Fi throughout the manor

05Upgrades

+$1,000
+$2,000
+$3,000
+$1,000
+$1,000
+$750
+$1,000
+$750

06Discounts

5% each

10% each

07Send yourself a copy

Fill in your details and we'll email you a copy of this estimate. This is also how we start the booking process.

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After you book

Your planning portal opens the moment your deposit clears.

Guest list, seating plan, budget tracker, timeline, vendor inbox — all in one place, set up with your coordinator at your onboarding session. Dates are not held until a deposit is placed.

Preview the app →
Groom lifts his bride into a kiss on the dance floor under a canopy of hanging wisteria inside the reception tent

The full picture

What you'll spend beyond
the venue fee.

Most couples arrive having researched venues but not having priced out the rest. Here's what the other categories typically look like, so you can go into planning with a real number in mind, not a guess.

Catering

The biggest variable, and the one that most affects your total. It depends heavily on service style, menu, and guest count. Food trucks and family-style options tend to run lower than plated full-service. You choose your own caterer. We can connect you with people who know this kitchen.

Bar

Since Rixey is BYOB, you buy at retail. What you spend depends on what you serve and how long the reception runs. Beer and wine only is meaningfully less than a full open bar. Our in-house bartenders handle service and that cost is included in your venue fee.

Photography

Full-day wedding photography varies widely based on experience, coverage hours, and whether you add videography. If you want a photographer who already knows how the light moves on this property, our recommendation list is a good starting point.

Florals

The range here is enormous and almost entirely a style choice. Simple greenery and personal flowers look beautiful and cost far less than full floral installations. Couples who use the borrow shed often find they need far less than they originally planned.

Music

A DJ and a live band are very different price points. Ceremony musicians (a string quartet, an acoustic guitar) are usually a separate booking. What you spend here is largely about how important live music is to you.

Tent (if applicable)

Not required. If you're planning an outdoor reception and want weather insurance, a tent with flooring and sidewalls is worth pricing out. Many couples skip it and use the ballroom as the rain plan, which works well.

Everything else

Officiant. Guest transportation. Hair and makeup for the wedding party. Cake or dessert. Signage, stationery, favors. These add up but most are optional and all are yours to decide.

Elopements

Small wedding.
Full estate.

Elopement packages are available Monday through Wednesday for up to 12 guests. Packages range from $950 to $1,250.

You get the whole manor (the ceremony site, the ballroom, the grounds) for your ceremony and a small celebration. No compromises on the setting.

Email us about elopements →
Bride on the flower-wrapped tree swing at golden hour while her groom stands beside her at Rixey Manor

Ready to see it in person?

Pick a time.
Come and see it.

Tours take about an hour. We'll walk every space, go through your estimate, and answer everything. Most couples know by the end whether Rixey is the right fit. Or call / text us at (540) 212-4545.

Your wedding at Rixey Manor

Come and see it
for yourself.

We want to learn about your wedding as much as tell you about the venue. That takes about an hour.